sirjimmyglass wrote:
It's very easy to say this kind of thing and I'm sure I'm being quite ignorant - but how can his family and friends not try and steer him away from this? Surely someone can do something to stop him deteriorating like that, over and over again.
2016 has been the year of the celebrity death so far. I hope so much that Gazza doesn't join the list.
I have first hand experience of this and, believe me, if someone is determined to drink there is NOTHING you can do. Years of visiting hospitals, sitting with them, begging them to go to rehab, detoxing, psychiatric care but then they just check themselves out (which you cant stop them doing unless they are sectioned) and go on drinking to destruction.
Alcoholics are often aggressive too and will certainly turn nasty if you physically try to stop them.
Then you start thinking about your own family. kids, life which is on hold for years whilst this person will not stop and also get advice to stop intervening because the alcoholic knows you're there to pick them up - back off and hope they will come to you.
Finally, when you're at your most deflated and defeated someone with no clue what it is like says something like "how can family and friends allow this?"