cufcmike wrote:
Bumble wrote:
If it's done on Saturday, that will be the fourth consecutive Carlisle United first team match that some form of memorial tribute (minutes silence etc) has been done before the game
I'm sure I'm wildly out of step with most people but I find having these things at every match a bit out of place and mawkish. Maybe I'm just totally old fashioned but for me grief is a private thing marked by private reflection rather than a public spectacle.
A good point well put. I wanted to say something similar but would have probably worded it in a way that would appear disrespectful to some. I will never forget PNE on boxing day when they had a minutes silence for "everyone who has died this year." Don't get me wrong, there are situations where I feel it is appropriate. But bad things happen all over the world every week. We can't be doing it before every game, it slightly takes the edge off if there is a situation that truly warrants it.
Newcastle United are still having a minute's applause at every game for the two fellas that died on MH17, the plane that was taking them to the pre-season tour last year in NZ. When does that stop?
I also remember Stan Petrov having to tell the Villa fans to stop giving him a tribute at every game.
This is possibly taking it to another level, but the way the poppy appeal has been turned in to a circus nowadays also makes me a bit sick. I think the poppy appeal is great, and we will forever be indebted to those that laid down their lives for us, but the some people go on about it is a bit much, when clubs are having a stadium full of cards raised to make a poppy etc.
Pay your respects immediately after the event and then move on, dwelling on stuff won't help - and neither will trying to make it look like you care the most, which is often what I think in these situations that people are doing.